The lbour of careful study is worth the peace and happiness it can bring for many years to come. Studying the method together makes it much easier to keep the rules.
The egg-release occurs on only one day every few weeks, it takes months of observation to grasp it properly. This is the reason why beginners need to read the method principles repeatedly. A firm resolution to keep all the rules from the beginning is essential.
There is no need to add to the rules. Success in avoiding pregnancy will be greater if the couple avail of the 'safe' days with relaxation.
The BM( Billings Method) uses a chart to record the most fertile sign observed during the day by the woman. Even tough many often object that charting removes the spontaneity from sex, in practice many couples who formely used artificials methods breathe a sigh of relief when they can abandon pills, coil, condom, etc... Some advantages of charting:
- Its enables both partners to observe rules more readily.
- The chart enables a husband to play his role more completely in family planning.
- When a conscious risk is taken and pregnancy occurs, the chart proves than Billings Method works.
- The woman is no longer the sole responsible to know when she is safe. She enjoys her partner looking at the chart himself.
On a later note, "One way a wife can show her love to her husband is by Keeping her chart and sharing it with him" and the husband can demonstrate his love for her by Abstaining patiently when needed.
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